Last night I told the kids that dad is in the hospital. Not a fun conversation, but I found a way to make it not so scary. When it was time to pack dad's bag to take to him that evening, Caroline decided to pack a sleepy toy for dad. She went to her room and she and I went through her toy chest and she pulled out a toy.
"Is this the one you want daddy to have," I'd ask.
"Mm-hmm," was her response. Then there was this long pause and tears, "But I'll miss _______ (insert toy's name)."
"Oookay then, it's not ________ (insert toy's name)," I'd say.
Then she'd pick another toy, and we'd go through the same scenario: That's definitely the toy, maybe not, definitely not, pick another toy.
This went on until we were at the last toy: Oscar the Grouch.
"This is the one," she exclaimed with joy as I sit there waiting for the tears to start.
What no tears? YESSSSS, this is the one.
So when we got to the valet at the hospital, the drivers got a chuckle when one asked her if she wanted to leave her Oscar in the car and she replied,
"No thanks. It's my daddy's sleepy toy so he won't get lonely."
Thursday, February 12, 2009
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thats my baby
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